The words "gaslighting" or being "gaslit" are ever-present when talking about toxic relationships, yet these terms remain tricky to...

A few years ago I decided to chronicle my personal situation in this public forum. I thought that an anonymous blog would serve as a...

No, I'm still here. Literally, still here. Still with the dickwad. Still trying to figure it all out. I put a pause on this blog...

The problem, in a nutshell, are eggshells: The eggshells I walk on each day, never knowing when one of the dickwad’s moods will hit. Some...

Oh boy. This is hard. Not that I thought it would be easy, but jeez, this is tough - and I've barely started.

Realising that the dickwad is a narcissist isn't new.  There was obviously something psychopathically self-serving about him from the...

Before you ask, no, that's not him. He wishes it was (minus the tatts) but nope. I need to conceal his identity as best I can while I'm...

Ten years. Ten years. In ten years I have regressed as a person. I have done the opposite of grow. I have shrunk. I am not who I...